Being in a long-distance relationship or even just away from your partner for any amount of time can be tough. Thankfully, we have phones and computers to help us keep in touch with the people we love — or even just the people we lust after. Most people will tell you that sexting is absolutely necessary if you want to keep your relationship hot until you get together again.
Which is great advice, until you get a little self conscious and realize that sexting properly can be a little hard. Texting someone something dirty is a whole different ball game than actually saying things outloud, even for the most sexually liberated people.
Here are some tips to get phone sex right. So relax: This person digs you and wants to get turned on with you.
This is totally up to you, but try to set a mood for yourself. Put on a pair of underwear that makes you feel hot or lower the lights in your room. If you feel super hot and turned on in your sweatpants, so be it.
But sometimes lighting a candle on putting on your hot PJs can help you ease into the conversation. In real life, if you were banging and the position was awkward or all of a sudden the dog walked in and made it weird, you would laugh with each other, right? The same goes for phone sex.
Basically, having phone sex is just masturbating with each other and talking about it. If you normally use a vibrator or other toybreak it out and tell them about it.
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Although calling genitals by their real name is totally acceptable, using some dirty words is much better for phone sex. Just think: Back in the day, people had to use a rotary phone to have long distance sex with them. Using FaceTime to mutually masturbate is a great idea, or you could connect via Skype with your laptop — if you set it up properly, you can get busy, hands-free.
Everyone likes a compliment! After you guys finish, congratulate yourselves. Tell your partner that that one move really worked. Like, really well.
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